2 thoughts on “What should I pay attention to when giving gifts?”
Garry
According to the experience of the respondent: 1. Specific conditions and occasions.
The gift gifts should be considered. Generally, when you go to a private home banquet, you should bring some small gifts for the hostess, such as bouquets, fruits, and local products. If you have children, you can send toys and candy. In addition to art decorations, flower bouquets and practical items can also be given in addition to art decorations. At the New Year and Christmas, you can generally send calendars, wine, tea, candy, smoke, etc.
2. Grasp the timing and method of gift giving. Gifts should generally be presented. But sometimes attending the wedding can also be sent in advance. Gourn congratulations and gifts for the annual gift, you can send someone to send it to the door or mail it. At this time, it should be attached to the gift of the gift from the gift, and you can also write a congratulatory word. It is installed in an envelope of a relatively small size. The envelope indicates the name of the gift from the gift. Under normal circumstances, it is inappropriate to give a gift to a group of people in public in public. Because the ceremonies will have a sense of bribery and foolishness, and it will make people who do not receive gifts have a sense of neglect and despise. The gift to people with close relationships should not be performed in public to avoid leaving the public to feel that the relationship is completely supported by material things. Only a special gift with courtesy and lightness and gifts that express special emotions is suitable for presence in front of the big court. Because at this time the public has become a witness to your sincere friendship. Such as a special souvenir.
3. Pay attention to attitude, action and language expression when giving gifts. This, friendly, generous movements and etiquette expression, is acceptable to be accepted by etiquette. The method of being a thieves quietly placed gifts under the table or a corner of the room, not only does not achieve the purpose of the gift, but it will even be reversed. In our country's general habits, when giving gifts, I always say too humility: "Booli! Booli!" "There is only a little bit" or "I'm sorry ..." It is best to avoid this approach. Of course, if you give away a nearly proud tone, "This is very expensive!" It is not appropriate. When introducing the gifts you give away, it should be emphasized that you have the favor and sentiment of the gift of the gift, not the actual value of the gift, otherwise, it will fall into the point where the gift and light righteousness will be reduced, and even the light righteousness, or even even It will make the other party feel a feeling of accepting bribes. Because of the facts of people, it is one of the specifications of social etiquette. The choice of gifts should also meet this specification. The choice of gifts should be treated differently for different gift objects.
Generally speaking, it is better for the poor; it is better for the rich; It is good; for the elderly, it is better to take practicality; for children, it is better to use the wisdom;
First of all, useful gifts are not as good as useless gifts. It is recommended that you do not send things too practical, such as clothes, perfumes, backpacks, etc., unless you have absolute grasp of your taste. There are a lot of these things. If it is not brilliant enough, it is easy to submerge in many of his daily necessities. If he doesn't agree with your taste, he will leave him a bad impression of "popular". If gifts are best to send "four non -drop" things, that is,: can't eat, can't be used, can't be delivered, can't be thrown away. Such gifts are most suitable for expressing their minds, and it is also easiest to make gifts a sense of joy, so that you are grateful to you for a long time. From the perspective of those who accept gifts, what useful things are useless are not necessarily something that can make them happy, but from the perspective of gifts. The purpose of giving gifts is not to bring great practical value to those who accept gifts, but to let them grateful you and remember you. The second, unique, creative and individual gifts. Such gifts can not only surprise and move the gifts, but also make him feel that you have spent a lot of thoughts and a lot of energy to prepare this gift for him. The purpose of giving gifts is here. From this perspective, personalized handicrafts are a good choice. For example, the personality cartoon statue made by soft pottery according to the characters of the character is welcomed by the fashion tribe. Its advantages are unique, can be kept permanent, and can be cleaned with water. However, the price is around 300 to 400 yuan, and the character is needed for clear photos, and it needs to be reserved at least one week in advance. There are also personalized comic portraits, personality crystals, personalized puzzles, personalized watches, personality necklaces, personality T -shirts, personality cups, and so on. Third, the small and medium are not as small as small. In other words, when giving gifts, choosing a more expensive gift in a less expensive gift category is better than choosing a cheaper gift in a relatively expensive gift category. Fourth, it is not as good as what you want. In fact, the purpose of giving gifts should not be the maximum effectiveness of the people of gifts, but to the greatest extent in the minds of the gift receiver. Therefore, you should give people what people want to buy but can't buy, or to buy things that they want to buy, give them to others or be a reward. Fifth, there is no choice but no choice. Gifts should not give a choice. Although people choose gifts that can bring them the maximum effect, many times, this choice does not bring them to the greatest extent. In some cases, choice will also bring negative effects. When the advantages and disadvantages of several gifts are not much different, giving anything alone is more satisfied than letting others choose in two or even more things. Do not give it to others when giving gifts. It hope it will be helpful to you!
According to the experience of the respondent:
1. Specific conditions and occasions.
The gift gifts should be considered. Generally, when you go to a private home banquet, you should bring some small gifts for the hostess, such as bouquets, fruits, and local products. If you have children, you can send toys and candy. In addition to art decorations, flower bouquets and practical items can also be given in addition to art decorations. At the New Year and Christmas, you can generally send calendars, wine, tea, candy, smoke, etc.
2. Grasp the timing and method of gift giving.
Gifts should generally be presented. But sometimes attending the wedding can also be sent in advance. Gourn congratulations and gifts for the annual gift, you can send someone to send it to the door or mail it. At this time, it should be attached to the gift of the gift from the gift, and you can also write a congratulatory word. It is installed in an envelope of a relatively small size. The envelope indicates the name of the gift from the gift. Under normal circumstances, it is inappropriate to give a gift to a group of people in public in public. Because the ceremonies will have a sense of bribery and foolishness, and it will make people who do not receive gifts have a sense of neglect and despise.
The gift to people with close relationships should not be performed in public to avoid leaving the public to feel that the relationship is completely supported by material things. Only a special gift with courtesy and lightness and gifts that express special emotions is suitable for presence in front of the big court. Because at this time the public has become a witness to your sincere friendship. Such as a special souvenir.
3. Pay attention to attitude, action and language expression when giving gifts.
This, friendly, generous movements and etiquette expression, is acceptable to be accepted by etiquette. The method of being a thieves quietly placed gifts under the table or a corner of the room, not only does not achieve the purpose of the gift, but it will even be reversed. In our country's general habits, when giving gifts, I always say too humility: "Booli! Booli!" "There is only a little bit" or "I'm sorry ..." It is best to avoid this approach. Of course, if you give away a nearly proud tone, "This is very expensive!" It is not appropriate. When introducing the gifts you give away, it should be emphasized that you have the favor and sentiment of the gift of the gift, not the actual value of the gift, otherwise, it will fall into the point where the gift and light righteousness will be reduced, and even the light righteousness, or even even It will make the other party feel a feeling of accepting bribes. Because of the facts of people, it is one of the specifications of social etiquette. The choice of gifts should also meet this specification. The choice of gifts should be treated differently for different gift objects.
Generally speaking, it is better for the poor; it is better for the rich; It is good; for the elderly, it is better to take practicality; for children, it is better to use the wisdom;
First of all, useful gifts are not as good as useless gifts. It is recommended that you do not send things too practical, such as clothes, perfumes, backpacks, etc., unless you have absolute grasp of your taste. There are a lot of these things. If it is not brilliant enough, it is easy to submerge in many of his daily necessities. If he doesn't agree with your taste, he will leave him a bad impression of "popular".
If gifts are best to send "four non -drop" things, that is,: can't eat, can't be used, can't be delivered, can't be thrown away. Such gifts are most suitable for expressing their minds, and it is also easiest to make gifts a sense of joy, so that you are grateful to you for a long time. From the perspective of those who accept gifts, what useful things are useless are not necessarily something that can make them happy, but from the perspective of gifts. The purpose of giving gifts is not to bring great practical value to those who accept gifts, but to let them grateful you and remember you.
The second, unique, creative and individual gifts. Such gifts can not only surprise and move the gifts, but also make him feel that you have spent a lot of thoughts and a lot of energy to prepare this gift for him. The purpose of giving gifts is here.
From this perspective, personalized handicrafts are a good choice. For example, the personality cartoon statue made by soft pottery according to the characters of the character is welcomed by the fashion tribe. Its advantages are unique, can be kept permanent, and can be cleaned with water. However, the price is around 300 to 400 yuan, and the character is needed for clear photos, and it needs to be reserved at least one week in advance. There are also personalized comic portraits, personality crystals, personalized puzzles, personalized watches, personality necklaces, personality T -shirts, personality cups, and so on.
Third, the small and medium are not as small as small. In other words, when giving gifts, choosing a more expensive gift in a less expensive gift category is better than choosing a cheaper gift in a relatively expensive gift category.
Fourth, it is not as good as what you want. In fact, the purpose of giving gifts should not be the maximum effectiveness of the people of gifts, but to the greatest extent in the minds of the gift receiver. Therefore, you should give people what people want to buy but can't buy, or to buy things that they want to buy, give them to others or be a reward.
Fifth, there is no choice but no choice. Gifts should not give a choice. Although people choose gifts that can bring them the maximum effect, many times, this choice does not bring them to the greatest extent. In some cases, choice will also bring negative effects. When the advantages and disadvantages of several gifts are not much different, giving anything alone is more satisfied than letting others choose in two or even more things. Do not give it to others when giving gifts.
It hope it will be helpful to you!